If you’re a decent guy that games, you probably won’t have too difficult time finding a decent female that games too (the crazy ones are usually hooking up in the supply closet ) I mean, our DnD group is about half-n-half, gender wise. College, baby, will rock your world for chick-nerds that won’t psycho your ass. Just talking to someone in a remotely intelligent and non-arrogant way will do wonders, virgin or not.

(although I do agree that talking about MMORPG characters is generally not recommended unless you’re comparing ^_^)

And by all means, if you want a one night stand, the frat houses often have a party on. Enjoy yourself, and don’t worry about the rash that develops two weeks later.

And do push-ups. Chest muscles help, and they make you feel more confident. Of all the things you can do for your body shape, push-ups has the best effort-to-yield ratio.

Agreed. “Look for a girl who shares your interests” is the LAST piece of advice you should give a nerdy male virgin.

Most “girl geeks” are headcases with low self-esteem who get into “nerdy” hobbies because they like being the center of sexual attention. And the remainder are sick to death of fending off clumsy pickup attempts from desperate virgins.

I understand perfectly. I was a total dweeb in my 20s.
Then, at 32, I went back to college to finish my degree. And my sex-life took off. Young girls love older guys. OK, not all of them but 1% of 30,000 female students is 300 girls to choose from. Older guys probably have money, are more knowledgeable about the world, and are just more interesting to them than the Beavis and Butthead 20 somethings they’re used to.
What I learned is: girls want the guy who will support their children. They want stability, not just money. And it helps to be smart. Learn something you don’t learn on the street or from TV. Get interested in Art and Music (preferably classical or jazz). And don’t worry about getting older and not getting any.
As a guy you’re never too old. Only too stupid. You don’t have to look like Brad Pitt or be super rich. (or have a huge penis) Just smart and stable and they’ll come to you.

Seconded. Why the fuck do you want to let shit-for-brains wastes of tissue like us scribble with our crayons all over the end of an otherwise good article?

Clothes and talking do rarely ‘click’ but Dolan is too narrow-minded to understand why it is happening. Overall, it’s totally fucked up to read how an U.S.A. Liberal Arts professor teaches international audience to pick up chicks, totally fucked up. My only hope is that the soon nuclear apocalypse will correct this matter. Maybe the protozoans or some divisions of metazoans will have a chance then.